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Tuesday, April 28, 2009

Finish Exam...

exams... exams.. exams...

FINISH LIAO LUUUUU~~!!!!!

WAKAKAKAKAKKAAAAA~~~~

ok la.. actually i dun hv any feel bout dat d.. finish mah finish loo... no big deal also..

finish exam liao.. so wat...?? go movie?? go shopping?? or..go back sleep...?? lols...
i end up with go bac pack things n bac to seremban..
movie..?? no thanks..
shopping..?? paiseh.. bo lui..
sleep..?? too energetic to slp liao laaa..

faint down.. haisss... go bac drink mama cook d soup~ almost 2 weeks didnt drink liao lerrr... so miss d soup.. n all mama cook d dishes.. huiyo.. saliva come out liao... slurrrpp~

3 may coming back to kl.. thn mayb 5th will go genting.. hmm.. i think dat trip will be fun ba... haha..

I WANNA PLAY EVERYTHING THERE!!!! E.V.E.R.Y.T.H.I.N.G!!!!!! ROARRRRR!!!

bsides.. namo namo.. hope my fo dun nid to resit ba.. coz i really did badly this time... really bad.. hm.. dun care liao laa.. ady pass up lor.. let d teacther dcide my destiny ba.. resit or not... dun care la... sighh!!

Sunday, April 26, 2009

Getting attracted...

look into your eyes.. i found that thers no secret that i can hide from u..
u like to fool around.. can accept my crazy ideas.. u r so funny!! n so CUTE!!!
i like u sooo much ooo!!! muacks muacks muacks~!!! hehee~~

(dun think too much bout dat.. all i toking is bout my tbr family d HAMSTERS!!! wakakakakaaa!!!)

Wednesday, April 22, 2009

tired day

2day i wake up kinda early.. bout 9am sth thn wake liao.. as usual.. i go find bside room d housemate.. n tot wanna play wit d hamster.. manatau.... d cage door is OPEN!!! walao aaa.. i straight woke up liao.. thn i ask my housemate.. both of them shocked.. thn.. a war finding d hamster begin.. not 1 o.. is 2 ooo... 2 hamstersss!!!! finally~!!! found it under d cupboard.. thn.. catch it come out loo.. thn.. another war catching d 2 cute little hamster... BEGIN!!! guess wat.. spent 2 hrs to clear all those problems... thn.. wait cloudy back n go jusco.. coz i wanna but facial cleanser.. n shun bian buy things to cook.. hehe.. n but housemate d present.. lalalalalaa~ thn whn go back.. another things happen.. d hamster that qi li bought dead.. she bought 1 pair la.. jz 1 dead... walauu aaa.....n im d 1 hu found out.. gosh.. so suey... wat bad things i also found out first.. thn i tell sharon.. sharon come to look look.. thn.. qi li found out.. thn.. she cried.. hais.. i rush to tell cloudy bout dat.. she straight jump up frm her bed.. n bilibala bilibala... thn.. d hamster cant be saved... okie.. its dead whn i found out.. d little body has harden.. n cold cold d... hais.. another little life gone.. thn.. ltr will b another storm.. dis is bout sharon d la.. coz her sis admited wad.. n her bf nt really wan to tell her coz scat wil affect her study for exam.. but cloudy suggest him to tell her.. if not.. more troublesom.. so.. he is goin to tell her later.. hais... dunno how la... shun qi zi ran la... better go study for my exam liao.. 2 days liao but dunno wat i study at all.. sigh... i better work hard on that.. if not.. dai wok lol~

Sunday, April 19, 2009

小小的惊吓

在吃完了早午餐后,老爸跟老哥去理发..
然后呢~
老哥叫我驾他的车去接他们
一路上都很顺利..
直到......
要park车时...
我差点把老哥的爱车刮上充满艺术性的痕迹
要不是他及时拉刹车
那~
老爸老妈..
你们可以准备一笔钱来修车了..
哈哈哈哈!!!
可怜的老哥要收拾我的烂摊子
还要吓到脸青青..
而我~
当然在那里笑翻了啊!!
都跟他说了我的PARKINGFAIL的嘛~
呵呵!!

Saturday, April 18, 2009

小小的人生观

冷眼看人生
冷眼看世界
到头来..
原来这些是一场毫无结局的闹剧

见识了所谓的生活百态
生老病死..悲欢离合..
发现原来自己也在其中
默默地跟着命运的安排

每个人都拥有自己的故事
是我太自私
忽略了别人的感受
是我太自我
以为只有我有那么的一个人生
其实
是我自己太可笑了..也太可悲了..


原来我什么都不是...

每个人都有自己的故事,属于自己的回忆..
在什么时候,我渐渐了解..
原来我什么都不是,不过..
我拥有一切!!
不管是曾经还是现在..

给我最亲爱的屋友们,
认识到你们是我最大的幸运..在我的人生中增加了许多乐趣..曾经一起经过的欢笑,悲伤..都成了我最甜蜜的回忆..不管未来如何坎坷,我都诚心希望你们都会过得快快乐乐,也记得曾经有一个我在你们的人生路过..

给我的朋友们,
认识你们都快要一年了..也混了一年..哈哈!!你们每个人都教了我很多东西,也让我明白了很多事情..我衷心地谢谢你们..笨蛋的事做了不多,疯狂的事也做了不少..一切都会成为过去,但我会铭记于心..因为那是属于我们的回忆!!

给某某人,
我很感激你,因为你让我见识了残酷的现实..也让我懂事了..原来世界是很大的..没必要约束自己在别人的身边..原来我可以做很多的事情,不一定要拥有爱情才可以拥有一切..单身的生活是充满乐趣的!!

给蓝某人,
我明白你是关心我..不过,我比较喜欢自由的感觉..偶尔的问候是很窝心..一直不停的问句,会让我觉得什么事都要报告..让我不知要以什么的态度面对你..朋友?情人? 不..那根本象个属下向上司报告所发生的事情..太可笑了..

给雷某人,
有时候,我真的很怀疑..你和某人是否成为情侣了..一连串的事情把我给弄糊涂了..就说最近的一次吧!如果你是他的女友,那是他的错对你乱发脾气..而你,应该要容忍他吧..如果你不是他的女友,你何必为了他而哭了一天呢?就因为他答应了某些事而没做到?我想你自己明白就好..每个人都看在眼里,心里有数..你是真的很在乎他的..

Sunday, April 12, 2009

Pieces of my memories...

dunno y.. i suddenly thought of this.. wanna write down every thing that i can remember since i was born.. i scat dat 1 day i will lost all of my memories.. even facing the dearest ppl infront of me.. but i dunno hu is them.. so.. i dcided to write it down here..

mama told mi.. my nose was lik a pig nose whn i was born.. so.. grandma always pull my nose to make it better.. haha.. thn.. my skin was very yellow.. even tan under d sun but still yellow.. so, she use beer to bath for mi.. thn.. my skin had become better.. n i think dat indirectly makes mi lik alcohol.. =.=

i looked back to my photo.. i was very fat whn born.. hm.. i think can say chubby also.. haha.. my cousins lik to pinch my chubby face.. but i very brave oo.. didnt cry at all whn they pinch me.. ^^

i think whn i m 5 or 6 yrs old.. my mum held a party for my.. all my relatives came.. my youngest aunty gv mi a big rabbit soft toy.. i still have it with me now ler.. thn.. i rmb my dad been bring d whole family to go other states to have vacation.. hmm.. d most i rmb d is dad forget to book hotel whn go to alor setar.. dat end up we find hotel that available around d area..

tok bout my kindergarden.. d 1st kindergarden..i cant rmb dat much.. coz too young dat time.. i jz rmb is an english kindergarden.. mayb is my communication problem.. so my mum change me to a chinese kindergarden whn i was 5 yrs old.. hmm.. d 2nd kindergarden many homework to do d.. everytime i came back from there.. sure have bunch of homework.. afta dat.. whn i was 6.. i went to another kindergarden.. i oni rmb i dance n compete in story telling in that year.. lets see.. d title of my story is the racing of rabbit n tortise.. haha.. dat time mama lik to bring me to her office n ask mi to tell d story to her fren.. the aunties very frenly n nice.. they let mi stand on d table n tell the story.. afta dat.. i can get treats.. hehe... dats y i so fat now lorr...

afta dat.. is my primary schl.. i went in to a neighbourhood primary schl.. lots of my childhood fren was there too.. but most of us not in the same class.. hm.. in pri 1.. i sit beside d clas monitor.. n she same lik my cousins.. lik to pinch me d.. thn in pri 2.. i getting lazy n had caught d teacher attention to see my parents.. papa n mama whcak mi in a closed room whn at home.. coz if in grandma house.. grandma sure wun let them do it d.. ohya.. 4gt to say.. mama didnt cook in house d.. so mostly we wil have dinner at grandma house thn oni go back home.. whn pri 3.. i still lazy as usual.. but whn near PTS.. i managed to score well n get offer to jump grade... but i wonder how i did dat. faint down.. i didnt accept d offer.. thn i cont to pri 4.. d most i rmb is i push my fren hu is a guy to a gal toilet.. thn... he scream n yelled at me.. i cired n thn we bcum best fren afta dat.. haha.. thn pri 5.. i rmb clearly.. august.. my dad get transfered to seremban.. i still can accept n digest d news.. thn.. i went to a kinda famous pri schl there.. d first day i went ther.. is whn they start their exam.. n so ngam is first day of exam nia.. so.. i took d exam n my result is not bad.. hm.. i dun hv many frenz there.. once.. d gal hu sit bside me blame me dat i had stole her nip pencil.. she ask d guyz in d clas to throw basketball at me during rest time.. thn.. i went to call my mum n inform the teacher.. n d headmaster also came to d clas.. in d end.. she had no proves coz d other student in d clas saw she put her nip pencil under my desk.. frm dat time.. my heart to get noe of new fren has dead.. i always use a barrier to keep myself away from ppls.. this situation keep on till i finish my pri6..

my UPSR results is not bad n managed to get into same sec schl wit my bro.. thn.. i stil keep my barrier on n jz kip on alone in the schl.. thrs oni 5% of chinese in d schl.. in my sec1.. theres 6 chinese in my clas.. but i didnt mix with them.. so.. they think i very satay(chuan).. n.. haha.. they throw my bag, step on it n pour water.. i didnt know they did that.. jz though dat mayb sum1 accidently kicked d chair n make d bag fall.. but afta dat.. whn i familiar with them.. they admit dat they did it.. nah.. those ady pass la.. mention it now also no use la.. ohya.. i managed to get know form 5 senior.. whn they practiceing for some function in the hall.. dats make mi joining the PBSM n PBC.. frm form 1 till 3.. mi n d gang kip on do performance for schl.. i rmb once is dance in front of yam tuan whn form 1.. thn.. f4 i stil got dance for few times.. afta dat i change to help in those managing work liao.. haha.. n i rmb.. we grouped d first basketball girl schl team.. thn ah gan get beaten up in d library.. thn i go to see d headmaster.. n many crazy moments that we spent togather.. ah yan, ah yee, lai, li jiun, ongkar, salina, christine, xin yue, sue, puay, jesilyn, huimei, hanwei, ahgong, ah gan, yao ming, ah thong, ah limp. n many many more.. even we r apart.. but i will treasure d memories that i had..

afta dat.. taadaaa... is my college life liao.. haha.. 1st is my housemate.. i got ah maa, ah paa there d oo.. n have complicated relationship also.. hard to xplain all nia.. let mi list out 1 by 1 la.. cloudy, my roomate.. ah maa, qi li n xiao fen, beside room d.. mr ah wei, qi li d bf.. ah paa, their ex hsmate.. yvonne, cloudy d ex roomate.. mr zi wei, yvonne d ex bf.. in a simple way.. i will call thm as housemate gang.. hahaa... within 1 year.. we had gone thru many things.. n dat makes me more understand them now.. i think la.. hahhahaaa.. but this big family gonna seperate soon.. coz yvonne goin to inti to cont her stdy.. thn ah paa goin bac hometown.. thn ah maa goin to graduate liao....hmm.. nvm la.. i will treasure every moment whn with them thn can liao luu.. ^.^

sumore.. my maple story d fren.. can consider as on9 fren.. ah du, ido, chopin, kong, killer, fei long, christy, sh, botak, ash jie, alo, ling mei, ant, shifu, n al n all.. hahah... now i jz got kip in touch with du, shifu and ant.. others didnt really contact with them ler..

thn is my clasmate liao.. hohoho.. my lame lame d clas rep, xiao hui.. she so dam geng ler.. n so dam lame also d.. thn is munz, d combination of lame n crazy d... haha... dun scold mi arr.. dats d truth ler... thn is bao bei.. another lame d ppl.. can say funny aslo d.. hahha.. thn is eddie.. RM 80 n silky girl.. hmm.. rainbow.. a person hu will sot sot sumtimes.. namo, my lao ba.. ah mo, my lao ma, jason, my xiao ma.. haha.. thn is da jie, a very nice n funny person also.. n peggie aka pinky.. hehe.. thn is joy joy.. a combination of cool n cute person.. fangyi aka my darling.. joyse, my er jie.. gui gui, a modern fela.. ah fun.. very tiny d person.. janice, leng lui lai d ler.. lynn, a cool girl lai d.. yinmei, ppl call her virus.. but i dun think so ba.. luan luan, another funny 1.. maggie, funny n lame d.. ah mu, future frezer of d world.. nicky, dunno hu d lovely.. xue yi, another leng lui.. kok yaw, under d senior gang.. n d senoir gang include leng, kent, jia keng n vincent, a person dat make mi realise of sth.. most of d time i will hang with munz, bao bei, n eddie.. hahah..

of coz i gt noe sum other frenz bsides col d frenz n hsmate la.. 1st is my roomate d fren.. there 5 ppl in d gang including my roomate.. haha.. pei wen, hui ting, lion n yun fei.. i rmb u all d name d ooo... thn is bao bei d hsmate liao.. daddy, mummy aka dennis, kai teng, n yi xin.. dun be too suprise.. bao bei d daddy is a leng lui n daddy is a leng zai.. hahaha~!! thn is kent.. on9 fren till real life d fren.. haha..

i guess dats d brief bout my memories ba.. haha.. i shd go slp liao loo.. 6am nid wake up n bac kl ady.. nitex evry1..

Saturday, April 11, 2009

Gonna C R A Z Y ! ! !

oh my oh my.. i m goin to crazy liao....... wraggghhhh!!!!!!! c'mon la LUM KAR MAN!!!! u r such an idiot!!! u noe how to tok ppl but dunno how to tok bac urself...?? dam u.. damm uuuuu!!! stop acting lik a stupid ppl.. STOP IT!!!

down.....to d bottom

human.. kinda pity..
jz now i went out 4 dinner with mum.. n d weather.. gone bad suddenly.. jz lik.. suddenly have a heavy rain.. my car pass by the pasar malam near d hawker stall thr.. n i saw.. the ppl busy packing their stuff n ready to call it a day.. i feel so sorry for them.. they jz wanna earn a living.. but still have to depends on the weather.. if the weather gone bad.. then they cant earn their living.. jz lik wat i saw jz now.. suddenly feel so down bout dat..

dat incident reminds mi bout my parents.. or can say all the working ppl in this world.. they all work so hard to earn their living.. but still.. sure have some incident that make them feel bad.. i cant find a word to describe dat.. jz lik a hard work that hardly pay off.. this also remind bout myself.. how lucky im.. n how horrible im..

staying outside.. 1st.. is the room rental.. evrytime i tell my mum bout d rental.. she gave me some extra pocket money also.. and i didnt think of.. where is the money come from... n my monthly expenses.. my daily item spending.. my school fees.. is all about money.. this is all d money that my parents work hard to get it.. besides.. my mum also work as part time chef to teach ppl cooking.. even this is 1 of her intrest.. but i know.. she do get tired sometimes.. dats y i will come bac on weekends.. coz most of her class is on weekends.. at least.. i can help her to take her things.. help in registration.. tidy up her things n help her to collect money..this is wat i can do to help her in my way.. but... i think dats not enough........ really not enough....

Friday, April 10, 2009

乐观的价值

  英特尔公司的总裁安迪•葛鲁夫曾是美国《时代》周刊的风云人物。在上个世纪70年代,他创造了半导体产业的神话,很多人只知道他是美国巨富,却不知道,他的人生也有鲜为人知的苦难经历。
   由于家境贫寒,安迪•葛鲁夫从小便吃尽了缺衣少食和受人藐视的苦头,他发誓要出人头地,他比同龄人显得成熟而老练。在上学期间便表现出了他的商业天才, 他会在市场上买来各种半导体零件,经过组装后低价卖给同学,他只从中赚取手续费。由于他组装的半导体比原装的便宜很多,而质量却不相上下,所以在学校里很 走俏。他的学习成绩也异常优秀,他的好学与经商的聪明才智,得到了老师的表扬。可是谁也想不到,他竟是个极度悲观的人,也许是受贫困的家境影响,凡事他都 爱走极端,这在他以后的经商之路上淋漓尽致地表现了出来。
  那是安迪•葛鲁夫第三次破产后的一个黄昏,他一个人漫步在家乡的河边,他从早早 去世的父母,想到了自己辛苦创下的基业一次次的破产,内心充满了阴云。悲痛不已的他在号啕大哭一番后,正望着滔滔的河水发呆,他想如果他就这样跳下去的 话,很快就会得到解脱,世间的一切烦愁都与他无关了。突然,对岸走来一位憨头憨脑的青年,他背着一个鱼篓,哼着歌从桥上走了过来,他就是拉里•穆尔。安迪 •葛鲁夫被拉里•穆尔的情绪感染,便问他:“先生,你今天捕了很多鱼吗?”拉里•穆尔回答:“没有啊,我今天一条鱼都没捕到。”拉里•穆尔边说边将鱼篓放 了下来,果然空空如也。安迪•葛鲁夫不解地问:“你既然一无所获,那为什么还这么高兴呢?”拉里•穆尔乐呵呵地说:“我捕鱼不全是为了赚钱,而是为了享受 捕鱼的过程,你难道没有觉得被晚霞渲染过的河水比平时更加美丽吗?”一句话让安迪•葛鲁夫豁然开朗,于是,这个对生意一窍不通的渔夫拉里•穆尔,在安迪• 葛鲁夫的再三央求下,成了英特尔公司总裁安迪•葛鲁夫的贴身助理。
  很快,英特尔公司奇迹般地再次崛起,安迪•葛鲁夫也成了美国巨富。在创业的数年间,公司的股东和技术精英不止一次地向总裁安迪•葛鲁夫提出质疑,那个没有半点半导体知识、毫无经商才能的拉里•穆尔,真的值得如此重用吗?
  每当听到这样的问题,安迪•葛鲁夫总是冷静地说:“是的,他确实什么都不懂,而我也不缺少智慧和经商的才能,更不缺少技术,我缺少的只是他面对苦难的豁达心胸和面对人生的乐观态度,而他的这种豁达心胸和乐观态度,总能让我受到感染而不至于做出错误的决策。”

你的成功你决定

  早晨我驾车上班时,通常会遇到3个卖报的年轻人。他们每一个人都有一套属于自己的卖报策略。但其中一人总能最先卖完报纸。事实上,另外两人所处的位置比他优越很多。等我日复一日地从卖报人身边经过时,我逐渐意识到,那个人的成功与他选择的位置毫无关系。
   第一个卖报人,总是站在丁字路口,他永远是一副愁眉苦脸的样子。当乘车人招手索要报纸时,他缓慢地走过去,当顾客刚看清他那招牌式的苦瓜脸时,他已经生 硬地将报纸塞进了车窗。如果赶上雨天,则很难觅到他的踪影。一般情况下,雨天买不到他的报纸。我并不怪罪他,但当我迫切想买某一张报纸,而又无法看到时, 我就难以忍受他这样的工作态度了。所以,后来我再也不从他那里买报纸了。
  第二个卖报人,站在十字路口,红绿灯带给他不少便利。一旦乘车的 人被红灯所阻,他就前前后后地在停下的车队旁奔跑着,大声叫喊着他所卖报纸的名字。我有几次试图从他那里买一份报纸,但都未能如愿,因为他总是忙于奔跑, 很难锁定他的位置。我招手、喊叫,但他似乎从来就没有注意到我。
  第三个卖报人,则总是固定地站在繁华街道的中央。双腿略微分开,以保持他 的站姿。他的手中拿着几份报纸放在胸前,以使司机和乘客从他身边经过的时候,能够瞥一眼大字标题。他从来不随着车辆走动,他总是等着他的顾客驶向他的身 边。他用使人愉快的“早上好”问候每一个从他身边过去的人,当有人慢下来打算购买报纸时,他的脸上绽放出灿烂的笑容。他友好的态度给我留下了深刻印象。当 我驾车离开时,他在后面大声说道:“谢谢你!祝你有快乐的一天!明天见!”他总是设法在卖出报纸的几秒钟内,把这些话语说得清清楚楚,又悦耳动听。
  没错,第三个卖报人是我最喜欢的。想必你会说,这也没什么大不了,不就是卖出一张报纸吗?但是我们完全可以从3个卖报人身上体会到很多东西:
  你的工作可能并非你理想的工作,但你完全可以凭借你今天所做的一切使自己感到充实和快乐。
  即使是几秒钟的短暂时间也同样能给他人留下深刻的印象,所以不要因为时间太短暂,就忽略自己的言行。
  你所做的美好行为不可能都有美好的回报,但糟糕的行为一定会导致糟糕的返还。
  一颗懂得感恩的心,一个甜美的笑容,一句简短的问候,尽管都是最细微不过的表现,但日久天长,它们所带给你的回报会远远超出你的想象。
  战胜竞争对手最好的方法,就是提供更好的服务。
   这天早上,又下雨了。第一个卖报人不知道躲到哪里去了。第二个卖报者,拿着温漉漉的报纸继续在车流中来回奔跑。第三个卖报人,依旧站在他的位置上,身穿 一件鲜亮的黄色雨衣,胸前的报纸被严严实实地遮挡在透明的塑料布下面,报纸一点没湿,人们仍然能看到醒目的大字标题,更能清晰地看到他脸上洋溢着的灿烂的 笑容。

静下来

  记得大学期间,有一同学给我写信总在结束时写上“祝静”二字,很奇特很新颖。当时很多人都写“祝快乐”“祝进步”之类的,唯有他大学四年,70多封 信,每封信都是这两个字。他说:“我知道你爱吵爱闹,常常是表面轰轰烈烈,待到曲终人散,便会有空虚失落感。假如你能够远离喧嚣的人群,静下来认真想一 想,或许更能领会人生的真谛。”
  工作后,每天六点半起床,七点吃饭,八点上班。先是看当天的报纸,然后编稿,再设计版式。接着外出采访, 然后是写稿、改稿。下班烧饭,饭后看书,忙得像台成天运转的“机器”。直到有一天“机器”支撑不住了,躺在床上静下来,才觉得繁忙的背后,似乎没有什么内 涵。也唯有静下来,才能有机会透过纷纭的表象看到真正的内里,认真体味那位同学关于“静下来”的意境。疲惫时静下来,你会更有信心地走好后面的路;愤怒时 静下来,你更能和风细雨地化解矛盾;紧张时静下来,你会拥有一份从容和镇定。
  不要因为年轻,就冲动地与你不爱的人结合;不要因为高薪,就 从事你不喜欢的职业;不要因为美色,就放弃与你甘苦与共的爱人。静下心想想,再做一个客观的决定。失意时,不要盲目悲观,静下来,你会发现自己其实有很多 优点;得意时,不要过分忘形,静下来,你会发现这点成功实在是微不足道;痛苦时,不要借酒消愁,静下来,你会发现看淡一点,快乐其实离你并不遥远;绝望 时,不要意气用事,静下来,你会发现生活的另一面正阳光灿烂、繁花似锦……
  无论经历多少刻骨铭心,经历多少生离死别,只要还能静下来,一切都可以从头开始。时间久了。悲伤和痛苦就会褪色成一朵轻盈的云。
  来去匆匆的人生旅途中,停住脚步静下来是件幸运的事。整理一下自己的心情,校定方向,再从容起程,或许能走出一个崭新的自我。

欺人者自欺

  军队训练营内,正在组织一次赛跑,长官非常重视这次比赛,他们决定从中挑选几个人去执行一项艰巨的任务,为此赛跑选了一条十分考验人的路线。
  赛跑还在继续着。士兵卡尔身材瘦小,他已经多次感到体力不支,眼看着自己越来越落后了,而他却发现,似乎越往后路线越复杂,到后来他已经是寸步难行了。
  不过,有一个念头始终支撑着卡尔的双腿,那就是“不论第几名,哪怕是最后一名跑到终点,我也要完成这次比赛”。
  就在卡尔感到体力快透支的时候,他的面前出现了一个岔路口,旁边竖立着两个指示牌,分别标出两条道路:一条是军官跑道,一条是士兵跑道。
  凭着过去的经验,卡尔知道通常军官跑道要比士兵跑道更平坦,更容易到达终点。虽然心中有一些不平,但卡尔依然朝着士兵跑道的方向继续跑去。
  同卡尔一样,很多士兵也看到了指示牌,可是大多数人选择了军官跑道。
  可奇怪的是,卡尔感到脚下的路似乎平坦了许多,跑起来也更轻松。更令人惊奇的是,卡尔没跑出多远,居然在通过一个黑暗的隧道之后就看到了前方飘扬的彩旗,还有设在终点处的主席台—他已经跑完了整个路程。
  当卡尔跑到终点时,他看到麦克逊将军亲自过来与自己握手,并且祝贺他跑出了前十名的好成绩。卡尔感到不可思议,过去他甚至连前五十名也没有取得过。
  他问起麦克逊将军那些选择军官跑道的士兵都在哪里,麦克逊将军告诉他:“他们还在路途中,不知道天黑之前能不能到达。”
  原来,当初设置指示牌的目的,并不是要让军官和士兵分开赛跑,因为这次越野赛根本就没有一名军官参加,之所以要这样设置,完全是为了考验士兵们的诚实度。
  结果,卡尔以其绝对的诚实赢得了比赛,同时也获得了执行那一项艰巨任务的机会。
  你对生活表现出的态度越是真诚,生活给你带来的快乐和成功也就越多。不欺骗生活的人,生活终会优待他。

抱怨不如改变

  在最近一次从苏黎世到纽约的飞行途中,我和一位投资商相邻而坐。随着我们交谈的深入,我得知,他在投资一家规模很小的科技公司时,投入了很多资金,却 收益甚少。他告诉我,他被那家科技公司的老板气得要吐血了。在整个飞行过程中,他没完没了地抱怨着。我问投资商,那个科技公司的家伙令他心烦意乱有多长时 间了?“好几个月了!”他愤愤地回答道。
  事实上,坐在我身边的这个男人,是一位拥有数百万美元的富翁,在瑞士有一栋富丽堂皇的高档别墅,有一位贤淑而美丽的妻子,有3个可爱的孩子。但这些足以羡煞世人的福分,被一个小公司的小老板轻而易举地就给抹掉了,留在他脑中的全是挥之不去的无尽烦恼。
  其实,我们绝大多数人都有过类似的经历。一件事情、一个人就能令我们长时间地烦恼,使我们沉浸于懊恼和悲伤中不能自拔。特别是当那个令我们烦恼的人还是一个不会体谅别人、不懂得领情、不会自省的人的时候,情况就会更加糟糕。
   有一则古老的寓言,或许可以给我们一些启示。有一个年轻的农夫,划着小船,给另一个村子的居民运送自家的农产品。那天的天气酷热难耐,农夫汗流浃背,苦 不堪言。他心急火燎地划着小船,希望赶紧完成运送任务,以便在天黑之前能返回家中。突然,农夫发现,前面有一只小船,沿河而下,迎面向自己快速驶来。眼看 两只船就要撞上了,但那只船并没有丝毫避让的意思,似乎是有意要撞翻农夫的小船。
  “让开,快点让开!你这个白痴!”农夫大声地向对面的船 吼叫道:“再不让开你就要撞上我了!”但农夫的吼叫完全没用,尽管农夫手忙脚乱地企图让开水道,但为时已晚,那只船还是重重地撞上了他的船。农夫被激怒 了,他厉声斥责道:“你会不会驾船,这么宽的河面,你竟然撞到了我的船上!”当农夫怒目审视对方小船时,他吃惊地发现,小船上空无一人。听他大呼小叫、厉 声斥骂的只是一只挣脱了绳索、顺河漂流的空船。
  在多数情况下,当你责难、怒吼的时候,你的听众或许只是一只空船。那个一再惹怒你的人,决不会因为你的斥责而改变他的航向。
   当然,你完全不必转而去讨好这个人,也没必要和他达成一致意见,甚至你继续厌烦他也无妨。但你一定要清楚,不能让他制造的麻烦转变成你的烦恼。无论你为 此多么愤怒,他不会为你而失眠的。如果因为他的过错而使你陷入无尽的烦闷悲伤之中,你就成了唯一受到伤害的人,而且,是你自己在强化这种伤害的深度和长 度。
  我提醒我的邻座乘客,他的责备从更深一层理解,其实是在责备自己用人不察、判断失误,从而在此次投资项目上,做出了一个错误的决定。经过认真思考之后,他认同了我的看法。“这次确实是我决策失误。这么多天来,最让我恼怒的人,其实是我自己。”
  但是,恼恨自己和恼恨那个科技公司的小老板一样,全都徒劳无益,于事无补。我提醒他,尽管犯了这次错误,他依然是一个非常成功的商人,重要的是应该从这次失败的商业活动中吸取教训,总结经验。
  在飞行即将结束时,他已经决定,终止损失,卖掉那家科技公司,重新开始。

Self Questioning...

uhm.. lets see.. this is my first post on april.. n now almost middle of april liao.. so.. this post will be much longer thn those previous d.. haha.. hope u all hu reading this wun mind ba..

uhm.. first is.. my dad took back his broadband liao.. T.T so.. now i only can on9 once a week.. if didnt back hometown.. thn.. no on9 liao.. so cham arr.... papa~~~ i wan broadband~~ hehe~ XD

thn.. 1 apr is kent's bday.. hehe.. sorry for d late post arr..

HAPPY BIRTHDAY~

Btw.. dats reminds me bout lots of my frenz bday on apr.. first of all i sure rmb d is ah yee~ 15 apr.. wakaka... i remember ur bday ooo.. got leong sam d ler... haha~ ^^ others ar... hmm.. i hv to check my frenster oni know bout dat.. i old liao ma.. cant rmb dat much.. =X

lets see.. got wat sumore ar... ohya... got many test this month.. tamadun.. fo.. cs.. all seems lik come at once.. feel so frustated nia.. read this thn forget that.. mid nite cant slp well.. thn wake up n stdy till aslp again.. haha.. this funny cycle start on this month ler.. lucky my roomate didnt found out.. if not.. i will get scold nia.. ~.~

uhm.. i stdy dat much also didnt seems work out ler.. coz look at d question paper will blank.. thn.. crap with all those i know d inside.. thn.. right or wrong hv to depends on d teacher liao lo.. cant do much.. at least i try my best to do it liao ma.. hu cares.. not good mah learn frm mistake loo.. bleh.. =P

thn.. on xiao hui bday i cried n make thm worried.. is jz dat i scat myself oni ma.. hahaa.. ok la.. i really will cry easily if sth happen to my family.. hahah.. i admit dat.. im kinda tough.. but.. jz.. my family is my biggest weak point.. hahaha...

n.. ohya.. i did some crazy things with munz n bao bei.. we walked to UTAR jz for d chicken rice dat baobei's mummy recomend d... er.. he jz say not bad la.. but hor.. we went thr twice.. n both day also didnt eat dao d chicken rice.. faint.. but 2nd time got hv lunch with bao bei d daddy n mummy.. hohoho.. n munz spotted big eyes guy.. lol.. now she kinda in d big eye guy fever nia.. anyway.. namo namo.. plz hope dat we can eat dao d chicken rice whn d nx time we go la.. hahahhaaa...

uhm.. ohya!!! i 4gt to put sth dat related to my title d.. okie.. d thing dat i been self questioning myself is..... do i clever?? hmm.. for myself.. i dun think so.. coz i catch things slow.. hv to read few times oni can understand.. hard to memorize things also.. i asked my mum bout dat.. my mum gave mi a funny answer.. 'u dsnt seems dat clever n not dat stupid as i see.' oh my.. dats my mum answer.. i wonder.. she is trying to say im stupid or clever.. =.= hmm.. dun wan figure out liao la.. stupid or clever.. hu cares.. as long i try my best thn can liao loo.. wakakkaaa~~!!

last.. i wanna leave some note for my dear bao bei n munz here.. n for eddie also d.. haha.. dun be too suprise ebbie.. is really for u d.. hahaha...

bao bei,
dun too stress bout urself.. if u know dat u tried your best at d moment.. jz leave d others for the teacher to mark it.. but at least.. u finish it all no matter right or wrong.. u ez to get nervous when u face on sth dat u r not familiar.. dun get panic ya.. take a deep breath n calm down yourself.. think some funny things dat happen recently.. hope dat it will help u to calm down.. ^^ dun be too stress whn with us.. u r not dat bad as u thought.. if have anything.. jz talk to us la.. frenz r born to trouble each other d ma.. haha.. btw.. im really glad to get know your housemate.. they r soo nice, frendly, cute, cool, funny n etc.. hahahaha.. but hor.. feel sorry 4 ur mummy aka dennis.. coz.. cant recognize him.. even i saw him few times liao.. sorry arr~~ T.T hope u wun get angry ar.. >.< (bao bei.. u noe d cute is for sum1 liao d lor... hor...??hehehheheeeee~~~~) anyway.. gambate in stdying ar.. jz left 1 more week liao.. rmb to do your best thn ok liao.. if nid any help.. feel free to ask me ba.. even im not pro n might give some wrong information sometimes la.. hehehe...

munz,
u aslo another 1.. stressing urself to study.. n kip on saying dat u r not clever n n wat n wat.. huiyo.. sumtimes i wan to open up ur head n see wadz inside nia.. haiz.. i also dunno wat to say liao.. =.= focus on your target n go for it la.. dun gv up unless u try it.. there r no stupid person in this world.. oni have those who easily give up n make themselves regret.. resit mah resit la.. so what..??!! give all all u have in the exam.. give the best shot!! now suffer first.. study till wan vomit also study.. after exam.. u wan anyhow scream, laugh, cry or wateva.. i sure will accompany u d.. so.. same la.. if anything i can help out.. can come n find mi d.. tbr oni ma.. 30 mins frm ampang oni.. lols.. im willing to help out here d..

eddie,
i finally read ur post.. i mean d latest post la.. jz go back whn u miss home la.. dun think too much.. even i in seremban also back always ma.. uhm.. home sweet home ler.. house is d most safe place for your heart to rest.. ^o^ okok.. i noe i tok lik an old lady.. even u r ELDER than me.. hohoho.. btw.. wish u gambate n gud luck in your studies.. i noe is hard for u all to stdy soo many subs in a short time.. dun gv up n go for it ba.. mentally support u.. in action ma.. haha.. sure will support also d.. but if u dun mind i gv wrong d answer lo.. hehe.. nah.. jz kiddin la.. i wil try my best to help also d.. ^^

for all my frenz..
STRESSED = DESSERTS.. so think bout your weight.. dun eat too many desserts.. n rmb to make urself relax n comfortable always.. gambate n gud luck ya.. ^o^